No matter how bad things have been, when you quit a job, part on good terms.
Australians and New Zealanders are bad at making a clean break. We’re too blunt and our work culture doesn’t help.
Keeping perspective when you’re given 30 minutes to empty your desk isn’t easy. The good news is this response to a resignation is rare.
Parting on good terms is also difficult if you quit because of workplace problems—maybe the colleague from hell or a tyrannical boss. Even so, you must resist the temptation to even the score.
There are three justifications for making a clean break after you quit:
A difficult boss will one day move on. The company might change its pay policy. A new espresso machine might replace instant coffee.
Either way, it doesn’t do to burn your boats. You might want to work at this place again—one day.
Reports of bad behaviour during your notice period will spread. Bosses talk to each other more than you think. So do colleagues. Bad behaviour at this stage can undo all the hard work you put into establishing your reputation.
A messy split is no way to start the next stage
We’re not talking about bad karma, this is more practical. As you wrap up one stage of your life, you should make a positive preparation for the next. Allowing your bitterness or anger to boil over means you lose focus.
Here are six things you should do before starting a new job.
- Tell your existing employer you are leaving. Do this fast and stay as professional as possible. Don’t make a big production number. It’s best to do this face-to-face. If that bothers you, write a short letter – not an email.
- Tell your existing employer why you are going. Focus on the positives – even if there are negatives. Say your new workplace has wonderful coffee. Don’t whinge about the powdered Nescafe.
- Wrap up loose ends. If you can finish projects do so. Try to ease the transition for whoever is going to fill your shoes. You never know, that person could be your boss one day.
- Work out your notice in good faith. Don’t start late and leave early or skive off to the pub. Work normal hours—of course no-one will expect you to work around the clock now you are on your way.
- Remember to thank people for the good times – there must be some. Be positive but sincere. Colleagues will remember your parting words longer than the thousands of words spoken while working together.
- Close on a high note. Singers leave the best songs for their encore – try to do the same.